Type of Techniques used by Students to Seek Attention =P

it had been quite some time i didn't write a new post to my blog...huhuhu..may i know y???

i also do not know...ahahah...

today, it's already 15th September~huhu

how time flies...

okkayyy, straight to the post~

~Types of techniques used by students to seek attention~

Skarang ni, semakin hari, semakin banyak pengalaman yg ditimba dan semakin bertambah pengetahuan tentang individual differences di kalangan manusia yg hidup di dunia ni...

Talking from experiences, xpayah ambik jauh2, kat skolah ni pun dh cukup... and i'm very,very sure that all of you had, are or will face the similar or at least a bit alike the situation i wanted to share with you guys...

These students, especially yg duk kt asrama, diorg ni rsanya mcm lack of attention dr org dewasa...and yg bertuahnya bila kita/warden/ "org dewasa"/guru yg ada kt asrama tu pun hanyalah beberapa org shj... mula la nk kna bagi kasih syg kt diorg ni...and they really love the attentions that you can give them...however, in some special cases, akan ada bebudak yg akn menonjol dr yg laen...xkesah la dr segi penampilan ke, perangai ke, perbuatan ke, percakapan ke atau ape2...tapi kekanak 'attention seeker' ni tetap akn ada...

Diorg ni lak leh dbahagikn kpd 2; yg akn amik perhatian melalui teknik 'menyendeng' dan satu lg, teknik 'i-pretend-not-to-care-but-i-care-very-much'...haaaaa...

Teknik menyendeng~

teknik ni biasa la, bnyak kesan positif dr negatif...ayat2 seperti;

'cikgu ni sporting la', 'meh saya tolong cikgu', 'ciiiiiikkkkkkgguuuuuuu' dan lain2 lagi kerapkali digunakan oleh students. teknik ni x la menyusahkn mna2 pihak sgt...it's like a win-win situation where everybody is happy...

Teknik i-pretend-not-to-care-but-i-care-very-much~

teknik ni special sikit dmana students tersebut haruslah mempunyai daya ketahanan mental yg tinggi...sbb pe mental???sbb, diorg akan wat prangai n keraskan aty sndiri supaya xrsa kesian.

teknik kedua ni la yg sengsaranya sbb diorg akn menyakitkan aty kita bagi mendapatkn perhatian yg diorg nk..selalunya, tindakan2 yg diorg amik adlh dgn berckp dgn lantang bla sdar kta berada d kawasan sekeliling, xbercakap tp wat muka pelik2 bla kita ada....meng'ignore' kehadiran kita @ ape yg kita ckp dan laen-laen lagi... diorg ni nk perhatian tp mgkin dsbbkn nature diorg, interpersonal skill diorg ni rndah..bla skill tu rndah, outcome nya akn berbalik kpd org dsekeliling...

itulah sedikit sebanyak teknik2 yg saya ingin kongsi bersama dgn tuan2 dan puan2 pada kali ni...later, kalau saya ada idea n rsa nk menulis, saya post la lagi...

p/s-cita psal histeria tu, spa2 nk tau smbungan dia, kna la meh jmpa saya sniri.. REUNION, REUNION~ ahahahahaha...