This song is specially dedicated to those who have made me a human~ My family, Mi & Friends~

This song is by Taylor Swift~

I'm Only Me When I'm with You~

Friday night beneath the stars
In the field behind your yard
You and I are paintin' pictures in the sky
And sometimes we don't say a thing
Just listen to the crickets sing
Everything I need is right here by my side
And I know everything about you
I don't wanna live without you

I'm only up when you're not down
Don't wanna fly if you're still on the ground
It's like no matter what I do
Well you drive me crazy half the time
The other half I'm only trying to let you know
That what I feel is true
And I'm only me when I'm with you

Just a small town boy and girl
Livin' in a crazy world
Tryin' to figure out what is and isn't true
And I don't try to hide my tears
My secrets or my deepest fears
Through it all nobody gets me like you do
And you know everything about me
You say that you can't live without me

I'm only up when you're not down
Don't wanna fly if you're still on the ground
It's like no matter what I do
Well you drive me crazy half the time
The other half I'm only trying to let you know
That what I feel is true
And I'm only me when I'm with you

When I'm with anybody else, it's so hard to be myself
Only you can tell

That I'm only up when you're not down
Don't wanna fly if you're still on the ground
It's like no matter what I do
Well you drive me crazy half the time
The other half I'm only trying to let you know
that what I feel is true

And I'm only me
When I wanna be
Well, I'm only me when I'm with you
With you
Uh-huh
Yeah

Research on Ways to toughen your Heart~

~Research on Ways to toughen your Heart~

Hati ini telah mnjadi trlalu lmbut sejak 2 menjak ni... Hadeyh la... ksan dia troq la jugak dmna secara langsung atau tidaknya, i'll pay attention kpd bnda2 remeh yg xspatutnya... n d worse part is, the things will affect my feeling in a way that i'll become moody, xtrsa nk b'ckp dgn org n nk senyum pn xtrsa ikhlas... then, mula la rsa bdan xsehat, mental apatah lagi, lagi-lagi la lembap...huhuhu...XSUKAAAAA.....

However, skarang ni, dalam usaha nak membentuk peribadi yg lebih tegas, xbrapa kisah dgn bnda2 yg remeh n utk boleh marah bertempat!!! BOLEH KE????

of course la BOLEH!!!!!! mari gelak beramai-ramai~ HAHAHAHAHA....

antara cara2 yg telah dijalankan dan dlm pertimbangan adlh;

• fikirkan nikmat laen yg perlu dsyukuri bla trsa sedih~
• fikir yg seseungguhnya "I'm the superior n Allah's always with me"~
• fikir yg nk sedih wtpa, tenangkn aty, tabahkn aty n wat bnda yg leh menyenang aty sniri~
• sesungguhnya, kita xkan boleh puaskan aty smua org sbb keadaan tu x kan tercapai smpai bla2, puaskan aty sniri dulu dgn wat apa secara logiknya betul n rasional~

Cara2 yg dsebutkn di ats msih dlm tempoh percubaan dmna ksan2 nya telah dpt drsai sedikit demi sedikit... Hypothesis kajian ini adalah untuk mengkaji keberkesanan peningkatan intrapersonal skill bagi menceriakan hidup!!!!

Lastly, laugh is the best medicine~~ Really hope that i can make my heart bloom with smiles~ AHAHAHAH~ =P

Type of Techniques used by Students to Seek Attention =P

it had been quite some time i didn't write a new post to my blog...huhuhu..may i know y???

i also do not know...ahahah...

today, it's already 15th September~huhu

how time flies...

okkayyy, straight to the post~

~Types of techniques used by students to seek attention~

Skarang ni, semakin hari, semakin banyak pengalaman yg ditimba dan semakin bertambah pengetahuan tentang individual differences di kalangan manusia yg hidup di dunia ni...

Talking from experiences, xpayah ambik jauh2, kat skolah ni pun dh cukup... and i'm very,very sure that all of you had, are or will face the similar or at least a bit alike the situation i wanted to share with you guys...

These students, especially yg duk kt asrama, diorg ni rsanya mcm lack of attention dr org dewasa...and yg bertuahnya bila kita/warden/ "org dewasa"/guru yg ada kt asrama tu pun hanyalah beberapa org shj... mula la nk kna bagi kasih syg kt diorg ni...and they really love the attentions that you can give them...however, in some special cases, akan ada bebudak yg akn menonjol dr yg laen...xkesah la dr segi penampilan ke, perangai ke, perbuatan ke, percakapan ke atau ape2...tapi kekanak 'attention seeker' ni tetap akn ada...

Diorg ni lak leh dbahagikn kpd 2; yg akn amik perhatian melalui teknik 'menyendeng' dan satu lg, teknik 'i-pretend-not-to-care-but-i-care-very-much'...haaaaa...

Teknik menyendeng~

teknik ni biasa la, bnyak kesan positif dr negatif...ayat2 seperti;

'cikgu ni sporting la', 'meh saya tolong cikgu', 'ciiiiiikkkkkkgguuuuuuu' dan lain2 lagi kerapkali digunakan oleh students. teknik ni x la menyusahkn mna2 pihak sgt...it's like a win-win situation where everybody is happy...

Teknik i-pretend-not-to-care-but-i-care-very-much~

teknik ni special sikit dmana students tersebut haruslah mempunyai daya ketahanan mental yg tinggi...sbb pe mental???sbb, diorg akan wat prangai n keraskan aty sndiri supaya xrsa kesian.

teknik kedua ni la yg sengsaranya sbb diorg akn menyakitkan aty kita bagi mendapatkn perhatian yg diorg nk..selalunya, tindakan2 yg diorg amik adlh dgn berckp dgn lantang bla sdar kta berada d kawasan sekeliling, xbercakap tp wat muka pelik2 bla kita ada....meng'ignore' kehadiran kita @ ape yg kita ckp dan laen-laen lagi... diorg ni nk perhatian tp mgkin dsbbkn nature diorg, interpersonal skill diorg ni rndah..bla skill tu rndah, outcome nya akn berbalik kpd org dsekeliling...

itulah sedikit sebanyak teknik2 yg saya ingin kongsi bersama dgn tuan2 dan puan2 pada kali ni...later, kalau saya ada idea n rsa nk menulis, saya post la lagi...

p/s-cita psal histeria tu, spa2 nk tau smbungan dia, kna la meh jmpa saya sniri.. REUNION, REUNION~ ahahahahaha...